Time is precious. How I spend my 168 hours* each week is of great importance to me. I’m the gal who squeezes out every possible juiciness from my day. I choose my play and work with care.
Lately, I find myself reflecting on a variety of my engagements. How I am spending my valuable time?
The questions I ask myself include:
- Am I a fit for this organization, program, or experience?
- What was, and is, my purpose in being a part of this endeavor?
- Am I achieving my goals and/or re-designing them to meet my developing needs?
- Am I surrounding myself with people of the same mindset that I seek to live into—curiosity, hope, discernment, full engagement, and a willingness to tackle the challenges that arise with an eye toward the goals to be achieved?
What describes—or how do you envision—
successful, productive, life-affirming working, learning, and playful relationships?
These questions are not academic for me.
Several recent conversations have prompted me to realize that by returning to my touchstone of purpose, I am best able to answer my questions.
In one instance, re-grounding myself enabled me to speak with clarity about where I am in the moment and what I hope for the future of the organization.
In a different conversation, I realized my colleagues and I have come together because of a shared interest in the learning experience yet we are all so different. While we felt an instant camaraderie, when we being to listen deeply to each other, our ways of being in the world were clashing causing disharmony. Perhaps we will find ways to come together though I am not sure… I also am weighing how much time I will devote to discovering the answer.
What’s your thinking about engaging in learning, working, and playing relationships?
How do you find the right partners for those adventures and endeavors?
I am reminded that being clear about my purpose(s) becomes both my compass and my lens as I step into new adventures and make time to assess current projects and relationships.
How are you spending your precious time?
* If you’re seeking support in wrangling what you want from your time (because time management is self-management, right?), I highly recommend 168 Hours by Laura Vanderkam. I’ve also just learned of Four Thousand Weeks by Oliver Burkeman. I can’t wait to listen to it! And, one of my favorite resources, The Joy of Appreciative Living by Jackie Kelm, offers a different lens for viewing how we engage in our lives. My Appreciative Living coaching is one of my favorite offerings … maybe it’s a gift you give yourself this summer. If you’re interested, let’s talk!