Liminal experiences—Finding Beauty at the Threshold
Endings, beginnings, and transitions span the spectrum of experiences — they are often a combination of rich, full, challenging, exciting, exhausting, and daunting.
Over the past few weeks, I’ve been working on a project that is rather different—at least for me. I’d like to invite you to peek into that experience as it may be something that you want to create for yourself.
As part of my studies, I was asked to create my lineage chart. Here are a few of the questions that I mused about as I began work on this project:
- How did I get here/How do I come to be where I am now (literally where I live and more importantly, perhaps intellectually, emotionally, and spiritually)?
- Who and what influenced me/my development (the people and experiences)?
- How did this path unfold (what was the combination of rhyme and reason and serendipity)?
If you make time to pause and ponder these questions about your life, what surfaces for you?
What does it feel like to explore your memories of your personal and professional development—your foundation?
I chose to sift to sort through photos from my life to form the basis for my chart. This was fun, challenging, and time-consuming. I loved making time to sit with photographs and linger over memories of times with my immediate, extended, and adopted* families and friends. I also realized that I either couldn’t easily access some photos (of my camp days) or I lacked photos of some essential experiences (particularly my college and graduate school years).
While it was wonderful to have so many to choose from, and my initial batch was over 100 photos, I needed to create a piece that shared the people and experiences most meaningful to me. I needed to develop criteria for who and what would be included… It was an important step in my process.
What would be the criteria you would use to show the through-line(s) of the story of your life?
Ultimately, I have organized my photos both chronologically and conceptually. And, I purposefully chose a generative (if often-used) image, seeking to play with its design.
My visual represents, in essence:
- The people and experiences that have been my foundation are represented in the roots of the tree. They supported me early in life. These are the people who have had a hand in the co-creation of who I am today.
- The trunk of the tree holds experiences that further strengthened and broadened my life— my schooling and my marriage.
- The left side of the trees/the branches hold family experiences—volunteering— and close friends. The center of the branches and leaves are my educational experiences (in part) and my chaplaincy work/CPE experience. On the right are collaborative experiences in my work life that have been particularly meaningful.
In the future, I plan to write short notes and attach them to this tree (so to speak). I will also be reaching out to the people in this chart to tell them about it and its special meaning.
I would love to know your thoughts on creating such a visual of your lineage. Even more, I would love to see what you create.
Just a little later today I will record a guided visualization to support you in beginning the journey of designing and developing your lineage chart. It will provide the time and space to remember and reflect. (I was tempted to make notes during the visualization, which is definitely not part of the experience. Instead, I trusted in my memory, that I would recall what was most important.) I would be delighted to learn what you think of this guided visualization. I hope you share your thoughts and feelings with me in an email. I have posted the recording below.
*high school foreign exchange experience living in/with a family